Learned some more today.
Sep. 30th, 2012 07:53 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Apparently, my first therapist did manage to get some letters written in a timely fashion through the summer, allowing people to meet the requirements to get dates with the same surgeon in the later part of this year. This was during the time that she was unresponsive for me, taking months to write mine.
This makes for a clear pattern of behavior. She intentionally made longer requirements for me for both access to HRT and surgery. When, due to life circumstances, the longer requirement for a surgery letter didn't impact me she went out of her way to cause a delay (and, for the record, it did cause a delay of my surgery date, but not a significant one.)
This makes for a clear pattern of behavior. She intentionally made longer requirements for me for both access to HRT and surgery. When, due to life circumstances, the longer requirement for a surgery letter didn't impact me she went out of her way to cause a delay (and, for the record, it did cause a delay of my surgery date, but not a significant one.)
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Date: 2012-10-01 07:10 am (UTC)If this is proveable on paper, I'd say it was actionable, but is it worth the hassle?
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Date: 2012-10-01 11:51 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2012-10-01 01:25 pm (UTC)In my case, the gatekeepers were the doctors I first ran into rather than the pshrinks who were sane and decent.
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Date: 2012-10-01 01:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-10-01 11:05 pm (UTC)Our world sucks sometimes.
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Date: 2012-10-02 07:28 am (UTC)It was crap then, it's still crap now!
And don't get me started on so called 'regretters'.
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Date: 2012-10-16 11:04 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-10-01 12:27 pm (UTC)Fuck that twit and the horse she rode in on.
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Date: 2012-10-01 02:31 pm (UTC)"...in charge of transpeople's lives" was supposed to be "in charge of BENEFITING transpeople's lives" though thinking on it now it might be an interesting Freudian slip because by being such a stroppy little buttface about the process the doctor has, in fact, wrongfully seized power over someone's life that just... ugh I'm mad again.
Anyway, bla, I'm so sorry. I can't even really imagine what it must have been like on your end if just hearing about it makes me want to vomitrage for you from the frustrating. Needless to say (yet here I am saying it anyway), you really didn't deserve that. Nobody does. And fuck her.