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Sharp Dressed Dyke ([personal profile] agent_dani) wrote2011-10-23 09:22 pm

Goals accomplished.

A few nights ago I realized just what I've done. Early in the first full week of December of last year I had decided that I would transition socially in the coming year. I was very much worried, fearful that I wouldn't be able to do it. Even so, I set three goals for myself:

1: Transition in the first quarter of 2011.
2: Within a year after #1 wear a skirt or dress at least once.
3: No longer be an employee of $state government by the start of 2012.

#1 didn't quite happen by winter proper, but was before the first month of Spring was over.
#2 was done soon after - sundress on the beach in Nags Head a month and a half after #1, a dress to a Father's Day brunch in the summer, then skirts fairly often throughout the summer. I know this one probably sounds odd; I had my own mental demons to slay.
#3 has now happened, too.

I realized this while at dinner with my wife on Thursday - I did it! I accomplished those goals!

There is just one that remains. I refuse to put a time on that one, though, as I do not known when finances will permit it.

[identity profile] cmcmck.livejournal.com 2011-10-24 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
And now you can retreat into jeans for winter like the rest of us :o)

I'm hesding for Scotland in a few minutes and skirt or dress given the weather up there atm is a tremenjuice nono!

[identity profile] lietya.livejournal.com 2011-10-24 11:47 am (UTC)(link)
You should be so, so proud of yourself!! That's a huge list of accomplishments, especially considering that you didn't think you'd necessarily manage any of them.

[identity profile] fanboy-of-zeus.livejournal.com 2011-10-24 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay! I love that feeling of realizing I've reached goals I thought were still out of reach.