A few things from tonight.
Went to my therapist's support group again (to help support a friend) and found it interesting. She's trying to address the problems that have been so present in that group and that drove me away from it in 2009.
In most ways I didn't find it useful. I was going to say I didn't at all, but that's not true. The topic was plastic surgery, particularly Facial Feminization Surgery (FFS.) My friend is planning to have FFS and I think tonight gave her a lot to think about. When we parted I told her that whatever she decides, I will be there to support and help her.
There was one bit of news that shocked me. Y'all might recall I was in a TG Voice and Communication Group at UNC-Greensboro in the fall and spring. The news concerns one of the women who was in the spring group; she died last month. I think this shocked me more because she's the second trans woman I've personally known who has died, and in as many years - the first, who I had known since the mid-late 1990s, died early last year.
Finally, I think this group session was valuable to me. The topic lead to a lot of discussion among the women present about what they didn't like and wished to change of their bodies. Significant amounts of plastic surgery desires were discussed, and I had a realization - that other than SRS I am not interested in surgery and am very much happy with my body. I think my experiences on that beach in Nags Head in May have helped more than I could have imagined.
In most ways I didn't find it useful. I was going to say I didn't at all, but that's not true. The topic was plastic surgery, particularly Facial Feminization Surgery (FFS.) My friend is planning to have FFS and I think tonight gave her a lot to think about. When we parted I told her that whatever she decides, I will be there to support and help her.
There was one bit of news that shocked me. Y'all might recall I was in a TG Voice and Communication Group at UNC-Greensboro in the fall and spring. The news concerns one of the women who was in the spring group; she died last month. I think this shocked me more because she's the second trans woman I've personally known who has died, and in as many years - the first, who I had known since the mid-late 1990s, died early last year.
Finally, I think this group session was valuable to me. The topic lead to a lot of discussion among the women present about what they didn't like and wished to change of their bodies. Significant amounts of plastic surgery desires were discussed, and I had a realization - that other than SRS I am not interested in surgery and am very much happy with my body. I think my experiences on that beach in Nags Head in May have helped more than I could have imagined.